Ladies Read These 2 Unexpected Things That Make Guys Feel Insecure Of You

He’s worried he’s not enough for you
He wants to please you. If your man feels he’s not pleasing

you, it generates self-doubt and insecurity. The “I’m not good enough” complex also relates to fear and insecurity that he’s not good enough $ex`ually. He worries he can’t “please you” in b`ed. This often comes partly because m.en typically org`asm before wo.men. Usually after your man or`gas`ms, his ¢exual desire and energy lower compromising his ability to keep going and please you.
It’s not always solely his problem, however. Often you have your own personal €exu.al insecurities which inhibit you from €exually arousing yourself enough, which cause.s you to take lon.ger to org`asm. If your man takes on more of the responsibility to please you in b`ed, he also likely takes on more of the shame of poor s
Sex`ual relations within your relationship.
2. He’s scared he’ll lose you
Your partner’s insecurity of not being good enough leads him down a road of fear — fear of losing you or that you’ll have an affair . From this place of fear, he can go in one of two directions, becoming passive and indecisive in the relationship, or becoming controlling and possessive. Or he may cy`cle through a comb`ina`tion, switching from the ext`remes of passive and aggressive. Sound familiar? It’s insecurity that leads to his passivity or controlling, jealous behaviors.
Whatever we focus on, we create the likelih`ood of it happening in our reality. By focusing on our insecurities (thinking that helps us avoid them) we actually illu`min`ate them on the unconscious level. We tend to focus on what we don’t want to happen, yet where our mind (focus and attention) goes — we go. And thus, in time, your man might accidently create the very experience he fears … losing you.