Am I a vi`rgi`n?
This is one of the most common questions I’m asked. Mostly
Sometimes there's additional information, from men and wo`men, such as:
“I broke my hymen accid`entally. Is that why I didn’t feel anything and I didn’t bleed which is a well known side-effect of vir`g`in!ity?”
“It didn’t hurt, am I a vi`rg`in?”
“My girl`friend feels smooth inside. I don’t believe her. when she says no other man’s been there before me”
“Please can you tell me how to check my future wife is pure?”
“I was told after my first time I’d feel completely different and experience a life-changing moment. But I didn’t feel anything”.
Altern`atively people worry about whether to let another person ‘take’, ‘break’, ‘have’ or ‘get’ their v!rg!ni"ty. Whether to ‘save their v!rg!n!ty’ for someone special and/or marr!age. Or fret they ‘gave their v!rg!n!ty’ to someone underserving.
What is v!rg!n!ty?
My advice to everyone is read these wise words from Scarleteen :
“The way to check if you're still a v!rg!n is to ask yourself how you define v!rg!n!ty, and see if or how your def!nition matches up with your experiences. In other words, there is NO … phy:sical way to determine if someone is a v!rg!n, because v!rg!n!ty is an idea, not a me-dical or. phys;ical condition” .
What is your personal definition of v!rg!n!ty? Most of us might guess it means the first time someone has penis in va`g!na (pen`etrat!ve) $"x.
I hear from people saying things like
“I’m a v!rg!n, but I’ve had or'al $*x” or
“I do an"al so I’m still unbro"ken for ma'rriage”. Or being
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