1. Don't
While it can be tem.pting to entertain the thought of really letting this person back into your life, you still have to stay guarded. You can’t allow yourself to be so vulnerable again right off the bat. You have to consider the fact that this relationship didn’t work before and it left you a broken person. There are plenty of things that you need to be thinking about and you shouldn’t be impulsively jumping into any conclusions. This time around, don’t let your emotions get the best of you. Use your brain first and let it take the lead for now. Here are a few things you need to keep in mind.
2. The relationship didn’t make you a better person.
You really have to take into consideration the person that you were when you were in a relationship together. Did you like who you were? Did you like the person that you were becoming? Well, the relationship ended and so it’s highly likely that the answer to both of those questions is no. You have to understand that a path back into that relationship is also a path back to the kind of person that you were at the time.
3. It’s going to hurt a lot more the second time around.
They say the first cut is the deepest. But that’s not true. You’re just going to hurt so much more the second time around. You are even going to hate yourself if things fail on the second try. You will hate yourself for making the same mistake twice. And those wounds aren’t easy to heal at all. It will take a lot of time and effort before you’re going to be okay with yourself again if things don’t work out for the best this time.
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