Do you ever feel like you could disappear and your ma.nn
wouldn’t notice? Here’s how to make him worry
Ever feel like you are undervalued and underappreciated? Sometimes in a relationship, it becomes easy to take advantage of one another or just to assume that the other person is going to be around forever.
If you are sick of being treated like it matters not if you live, die, breathe, don’t breathe, or simply exist, there is a way to bring back that attentive guy who couldn’t live without you. You have to know how to make him worry about losing you.
Yes, that guy is still in there somewhere. He may just need some major coaxing to find his way out. In any relationship, no matter how comfortable you are with each other, there are ways to creep insecurity back in… the good kind.
A little healthy tension and jealousy are the best way to snap him out of taking you for granted and give him a vision of what it looks like when you are no longer there to be his maid, cook, and booty call.
#1 Have a friend text you under an imaginary contact. The thing that will make him worry about losing you most is thinking that there are still other men who find you desirable and want to score with you.
The best way to remind him that you meet people out in the world every day who may be interested in dating you is to create a fake contact on your phone like “Jake” and then have a friend text you.
When he sees another guy’s phone number blowing up your phone, it will certainly send his anxiety high and make him fearful that there might be someone else out there better suited – or just plain better – than him. [Read: How to make a guy jealous in 30 wicked ways to win his attention ]
#2 Make yourself unavailable . If you are always the one who is sitting around waiting for him to contact you or to check in on your day, then it is time to make yourself unavailable. If he suddenly can’t contact you any time that he wants, he might be reminded of what it was like to not have someone as awesome as you in his life.
#3 Be elusive about your plans . If you are someone who. always checks in and checks with him before making plans, then it is time to stop being so accountable and accounted for. Instead of telling him the aspects of your night on the town or downplaying it to make it sound like you don’t have anything important going on, keep the details all to yourself.
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